Following are some comments on cultism in Amway. In the Forbes quote, an Amway executive admits to the problem of cultism. Phil Kerns, who was in both the People's Temple and Amway, compares the two. (The Forbes article was written after Kerns' book brought much unfavorable publicity to Amway.) Most of the other comments are from cult/mind control experts, and the last is from an ex-Amway distributor. I've saved many other similar comments from ex-distributors who said they felt as if they had been involved in a cult.
Especially noteworthy is the section from Dr. Samway's book; in the preface she states "I have mentioned the names of groups and courses only where I have heard similar and consistent stories from many separate sources."
I'm starting with some information from the Cult Awareness Network in Chicago, to help put everything else in its proper context. [Note: Since this information was compiled the Cult Awareness Network was taken over by the Scientologists and should no longer be considered a trustworthy source of information on cultism. The information here is still valid, however.]
[For more information on cultism in Amway, please see Ashley Wilkes' Amway Motivational Organizations: The Nightmare Builders, and our links to other Amway Information Sites. We also have links to a number of general cult information web sites.]
Who Are They?
Destructive cults fall into several different categories, including:
1. Religious
2. Therapy/Self-Awareness
3. Political
4. Commercial
5. New Age
6. Satanic/Ritual Abuse
Marks Of A Destructive Cult
* Mind Control (undue influence): Manipulation by the use of coercive
persuasion or behavior modification techniques without informed consent.
* Charismatic Leadership: Claiming divinity or special knowledge and demanding unquestioning obedience with power and privilege. Leadership may consist of one individual or a small group of core leaders.
* Deception: Recruiting and fundraising with hidden objectives and without full disclosure of the use of mind controlling techniques; use of "front groups."
* Exclusivity: Secretiveness or vagueness by followers regarding activities and beliefs.
* Alienation: Separation from family, friends and society, a change in values and substitution of the cult as the new "family;" evidence of subtle or abrupt personality changes.
* Exploitation: Can be financial, physical or psychological; pressure to give money, to spend a great deal on courses or give excessively to special projects and to engage in inappropriate sexual activities, even child abuse.
* Totalitarian Worldview (we/they syndrome): Effecting dependence, promoting goals of the group over the individual and approving unethical behavior while claiming goodness.
Techniques Of Mind Control
* Group pressure and "Love-Bombing" discourages doubts and reinforces the
need to belong through the use of child-like games, singing, hugging,
touching or flattery.
* Isolation/Separation creates inability or lack of desire to verify information provided by the group with reality.
* Thought-Stopping Techniques introduce recruit to meditating, chanting, and repetitious activities which, when used excessively, induce a state of high suggestibility.
* Fear and Guilt induced by eliciting confessions to produce intimacy and to reveal fears and secrets, to create emotional vulnerability by overt and covert threats, as well as alternation of punishment and reward.
* Sleep Deprivation encouraged under the guise of spiritual exercises, necessary training, or urgent projects.
* Inadequate Nutrition sometimes disguised as special diet to improve health or advance spirituality, or as rituals requiring fasting.
* Sensory Overload forces acceptance of complex new doctrine, goals and definitions to replace old values by expecting recruit to assimilate masses of information quickly with little or no opportunity for critical examination.
NOTE: Not all of these features need to be present simultaneously for a mind control regime to be operative.
Harmful Effects
* Loss of free will and control over one's life.
* Development of dependency and return to child-like behavior.
* Loss of spontaneity or sense of humor.
* Inability to form intimate friendships outside the cult or enjoy flexible relationships.
* Physical deterioration and abuse.
* Psychological deterioration (including hallucinations, anxiety, paranoia, disorientation, and dissociation).
* Involuntary, de facto servitude or exploitation.
NOTE: Not all of these harmful effects will be experienced by everyone who has a destructive cult experience.
"When you meet the friendliest people you have ever known, who introduce you to the most loving group of people you've ever encountered, and you find the leader to be the most inspired, caring, compassionate and understanding person you've ever met, and then you learn that that cause of the group is something you never dared hope could be accomplished, and all of this sounds too good to be true, it probably is too good to be true! Don't give up your education, your hopes and ambitions, to follow a rainbow."
-- Jenne Mills, former member of the People's Temple and subsequent victim of assasination a year following the November 18, 1978 Jonestown suicide/murders of 911 adults and children.
Submitted via email by a former distributor
Hello Mr. Schwartz,
Reading your pages has made me decide to also submit insight from my
little experience with Amway.
It utilizes the checklist of a Destructive Cult, and then compares my
recollections of that time in my life with that of the items within the
list.
* Charismatic Leadership: Claiming divinity or special knowledge and
demanding unquestioning obedience with power and
privilege. Leadership may consist of one individual or a small group of
core leaders.
I don't think there is one person that they have at Free Enterprise Day
that isn't charismatic, just drumming one of two things into your mind.
First is how successful they are, and second is that they were
successful by following the examples and instructions of their leaders.
Time after time we hear examples of how they ran into a problem, and ran
to their leadership who solved everything. Time after time we hear how
they were down on their luck, but they persevered, and made it through,
and now look at where they are at. Time after time, we are reminded
that if we are good little worker bees, that eventually we can be on top
too...
* Deception: Recruiting and fundraising with hidden objectives and
without full disclosure of the use of mind controlling
techniques; use of "front groups."
Deception? Don't think there's deception in Amway? First thing they
teach you about contacting new prospects: Don't tell them it's Amway.
They even coach you on how to avoid the question of "Is it Amway"...
some responses are "Why do you think it would be Amway?", "What have you
heard about Amway?", "Why, do you know someone who has been successful
in Amway?". And of course, "our group is different" from INA, or World
Wide Dream Builders, or * or * or *. We support you, and bring you into
our happy family. 2nd thing they teach you is not to tell anyone how
long you have been in, how much (little) money you make, etc. Talk in
vague concepts "because we don't want to violate the law"... which in
reality to say that you don't want people to think of you as LESS
successful than what you really are.
* Exclusivity: Secretiveness or vagueness by followers regarding
activities and beliefs.
Again leading back to the exclusivity of follow the instructs of your
upline, and don't do what INA does, do what we have done, as we know
it's successful. Noneone has the miracle soap we do. Noone has the
marketing plan we do (look at the FTC item that says we are a better MLM
than everyone out there... (which reminds me, Steve, has anyone tried to
find out about this thing? and if so, why does the FTC keep going after
Amway?). Don't try anything new, just do what we tell you to. And the
first few times you show the plan, someone else has to do it... you have
to learn... OK, that's fine for the first few times, and then after you
show the plan about a half dozen times with your upline, you can also
branch on off and show it on your own, but make sure that those people
see the nightly "big plan" being shown at your local hotel meeting
place, or whatever, so that they can see the big picture, and learn new
things that you don't know yet.
* Alienation: Separation from family, friends and society, a change in
values and substitution of the cult as the new "family;"
evidence of subtle or abrupt personality changes.
"If they can't see the benefit to the plan, then they are just going to
hold you back. This is so simple, anyone can make money at, and if they
can't make money at it, they aren't worth your time." This is the sort
of alienation that lost me one friend, almost lost me my wife, and also
damaged other relationships. I know now that some of my friends think
of me as a guy out to get a quick buck, and as a soap salesman. I left
Amway over 4 years ago, and I still have this stigma over my head with
some of my friends. Alienation is an understatement.
* Exploitation: Can be financial, physical or psychological; pressure to
give money, to spend a great deal on courses or give
excessively to special projects and to engage in inappropriate sexual
activities, even child abuse.
Countless tales of the pressure to go to functions, buy tapes, be
"core", read the book, show the plan 5 to 7 times a week, can show that
this is exploitative. You are a loser if you aren't core. You are a
loser if you don't go to FED(or the monthly seminars, or the various
nightly seminars on your nights when you aren't showing a plan). You
are a loser if you don't have 100% personal usage. I remember when we
started to back away, we mentioned that the tape costs were killing us,
and the response was not to back off, but instead, listen to the tapes
more, and listen to more of them.
* Totalitarian Worldview (we/they syndrome): Effecting dependence,
promoting goals of the group over the individual and
approving unethical behavior while claiming goodness.
Really? "Save the world with our new ecologically safe soap, that's
cheaper, and even if you don't sell it, at least buy it from yourself"
It's the Business vs. the System. Nobody has a soap that is this
environmentally safe. We are the wave of the future. MLM is the wave
of the future. Not advertising is the wave of the future. Catalog
sales are the way of the future. We know the only wave of the future,
and it's not at a dead end job (Just Over Broke) in the System. We are
the only people who will be selling stuff by the end of the century (the
Internet wasn't all that big yet). We are the "only way you can break
free from your pathetic, miserable, little lives".
* Group pressure and "Love-Bombing" discourages doubts and reinforces
the need to belong through the use of child-like
games, singing, hugging, touching or flattery.
I went to college for Radio and TV broadcasting, so I've heard many
items on creating trances, and other sound related items. Yes, there is
a lot of group pressure, and love-bombing, but what I have yet to see on
your pages, Mr. Schwartz, is a comment that at both of the FED's that I
went to, there was heavy usage of music, where everyone was encouraged
to dance to it, sing along, etc. This sort of singing the same song
over and over and over again can also be brainwashing. How many
children have we heard singing the same commercial over and over again?
And of course, the band that was playing there also has a bunch of
albums that you can buy for listening to in-between your daily "show the
plan" tapes... (When was the last time you went on out and bought a
commercial?) Music at the right speed can provide a sort of trance
state, where you will be more receptive to what you are about to hear,
and I have no doubt that they knew this.
* Isolation/Separation creates inability or lack of desire to verify
information provided by the group with reality.
Of course, going back to the "if they don't do it, they are losers", and
"if they failed before, they're losers", so obviously you don't need to
associate with losers, as they don't really know what they are talking
about. Associate only with winners. Associate only with people who
have the potential to be winners. We know who can be a winner. Trust
us, those people who don't get into the Business, are all losers.
* Thought-Stopping Techniques introduce recruit to meditating, chanting,
and repetitious activities which, when used
excessively, induce a state of high suggestibility.
Yep, here we do with the songs that were played at FED, which say the
same things over and over and over again. And they also have some
"chanting" as well... "What do you do?" "SHOW THE PLAN" "How often?"
"EVERY DAY"
There's a song that they have, and I don't recall any other lines other
than "We're gonna Party in Paris, Jam it in Jamica. We're gonna boogie
in the Bahamas, hang loose in Hawaii". Repeat 20 times, or something
like that... all I knew was that this annoying simple set of tunes stuck
in my mind for weeks afterwards. UGH... But yes, they got
"interactive" in that everyone was demanded to respond, you felt really
out of place if you didn't respond. And you had to respond loudly, and
sound convicted to that, especially when you have someone right next to
you who is brand new. By the time you have been in this Business for a
couple of months, it is poor form on the behalf of your upline, if you
haven't seen a plan done at least 10 times. Every function I went to
still included showing the plan, drumming the circles into your mind
with a sledgehammer.
* Fear and Guilt induced by eliciting confessions to produce intimacy
and to reveal fears and secrets, to create emotional
vulnerability by overt and covert threats, as well as alternation of
punishment and reward.
The fear that "if you don't do this, then what will you do?"... no
alternative is given, except of course the occassional negative image of
working at your "J(ust) O(ver) B(roke) job", only to have to live on
Social Security, be a burden to your family and society for the rest of
your pathetic miserable life. How can you let your family down? How
can you not support your family in the coming years? You won't have
money, your family will be living like trailer trash, and your world
will fall apart if you don't succeed.
* Sleep Deprivation encouraged under the guise of spiritual exercises,
necessary training, or urgent projects.
* Inadequate Nutrition sometimes disguised as special diet to improve
health or advance spirituality, or as rituals requiring
fasting.
* Sensory Overload forces acceptance of complex new doctrine, goals and
definitions to replace old values by expecting recruit to assimilate
masses of information quickly with little or no opportunity for critical
examination.
Sleep deprivation? Inadequate nutirtion? Sensory overload? Really?
FED is one big huge bundle of all of this, and it's horrible... OK,
first off, you get there Friday... "We started late, so we need to stay
a little later tonight... no big deal, right? Cause we all want to be
successful, right? Don't want to be a loser, right? Wanna party in
Paris, right?"... Friday is not all that bad, we just spent 4 hours
driving there (mind you, after leaving work 2 hours early)... It's like
a long "plan". But then Saturday, you have to get up, to hear this
great person speak first thing in the morning... you might even get a
chance to meet *, as he's going to be tied up with helping the big guy
out, and you have to meet him. So you get up, 7:30 or so, after being
awake til midnight or so (12:30 by the time you get back to the hotel),
and run out the door to make it there on time. You go until noon, when
they give you 30 minutes or so for lunch, but you have to hurry back, as
they are going to introduce * who is one of the greatest people you will
ever hear speak. Yep, sensory overlead starts filling in here, as you
have assimilated a bunch of information already, and you need to see
everyone, and hear every word, as they are somewhere you are not...
Successful. So you drag yourself on back after shoving some horrible
combination of fast food. You then are expected to jump up and down,
dance and sing for another however long. You are exhausted, and your
body wants that Siesta, but you can't afford to miss a single word...
your energy starved body starts to slow down, you mind starts to fade a
little, and they get some monotone person up there who drives his point
straight through your brain, telling you how to show the plan, how to
overcome objections, and you sit there, your mind soaking it up as you
have no way to think for yourself. Dinner time rolls around, and it's
the same thing all over again... Tonight is going to be great, though,
you can't miss a single second, as the speaker tonight is the leader of
your organization, and he's the man who knows the secret, and he's going
to share it with you, as you are all special to show up for this. (His
secret... trust your upline, and let them make any decisions for you,
but you don't know that yet). So they keep going.... and going....
midnight rolled on by, and we still hadn't heard this guy yet... 12:45
he gets up and he starts to spout this sexist drivel that upsets your
wife, and if you have any concern for your wife, you as well... He goes
on for 30 minutes, and imparts only two bits of wisdom (many times, many
ways, but it's only two, and they are his tidbits)... 1. Trust your
upline to think for you... 2. The man is the one that needs to bring
home the money... the wife is insignificant, she's only good enough to
order the supplies, and keep the house clean. So 1:15 in the morning has
rolled around, and we head on out... my wife is so agitated, that I
have to spend the next 30 minutes calming her down, and then another 15
to get into bed. Ergo, 2:00am. Being a Christian, I wanted to attend
the service in the morning, another 8:00am thing, so I'm working on
about 5 1/2 hours of sleep... naturally, I'm bleary eyed as the service
ends, and Sunday begins with more of the brainwashing. We endured
through 6 more hours, of course, the big guy was given time for lunch,
and we were even told "hey, go ahead and get lunch, but you have no idea
what you'll be missing... It's gonna be great..."... our upline urged us
to stay, and we did. We finally got out of there, and headed back home,
probably leaving around 7:00 or so, so we arrive at home around 11:30,
having effectively been brainwashed...
So, is it a cult? Yep, I'm sure of it. There is not a doubt in my
mind. We were running a little tight on funds, so someone in our
uplline suggested that my wife drop her part-time job, and work
full-time on Amway. We were told not to bother with the people who
didn't have enough drive to succeed, as they would bring us down with
them. We were told that my wife was to be subservient, and do all that
I say (she didn't like that one).
I'm sure that you are deluged with similar letters, and I must commend
you for putting up this site. I don't know how often I'll drop by
again, but I wish you luck. I only hope that more people can realize
what they are getting into before they make the jump into Amway.
[Many thanks to the person who took the time to write this]
In his book Fake It 'Til You Make It, Phil Kerns compares Amway to Jim Jones' People's Temple.
"I hope that I am not disturbing you, Mr. Kerns. I got your telephone
number from your publisher in Plainsfield, New Jersey. I read your book
on the People's Temple, and I just wanted to give you my condolences on
the loss of your mother and sister in Jonestown." Towards the end of our
telephone conversation, she asked, "Oh, buy the way, are you aware of the
Amway business?"
"Yes," I replied, but I did not tell her I was in the business.
"You know, every time I go to one of their meetings, it reminds me so much
of your book--al the chanting and the way they malign and twist the holy
scriptures for gain. I feel that this business is a cult. I think you
need to tell the world about this company."
Inside I was chuckling to myself. "This is so far from the truth," I
thought. "This is just a soap business--an opportunity."
I dismissed her statements from my mind because I felt they were unfounded
and drifting somewhere between "Star Wars" and the "Twilight Zone."
However, today I know better; I wish I had not shunned this woman's
notion to abruptly. I hope that if she read this books, she will call
back so I may apologize.
Could this organization be classified as a cult? There are, without a doubt,
many different characteristics utilized within this integration of
salespersons which could lead many individuals to arrive at the same
conclusions this lady did.
Now I realized there was more to this business than just soap and spinoffs.
There was POWER!
From Cleaning Up?, Forbes 3/25/85:
From Avon Shuns Acquisition Overtures, Washington Post 5/4/8:
Sociologist and cult expert Jack Levin, from American Journal segment
on Amway:
From Hidden Persuaders, Time Out (U.K.) June 22 '94:
The former university chaplain who now runs Catalyst, a counselling and
therapy service for those affected by cults, listened carefully as the
man explained how the group he had joined a year earlier was slowly
taking over his life.
There were the huge monthly meeting at venues like the Wembley Conference
Centre where he and thousands of other followers were worked into a
passionate frenzy and then told to go out and find as many new recruits
as possible; the powerful doctrine that frowned on television, newspapers
and other "negative" influences; there was the strict dress code and the
advice on how to bring up children and relate to loved ones; there was
the fear that to quit would mean giving up all hope of a happy future.
However, having seen the television show featuring Baldwin, the man now
alleged that he was being subjected to mind control techniques and being
manipulated by those above him. He wanted advice on making a possible
break. Baldwin asked which cult the man was in.
"It's not a cult. It's not a religion. It's something called Amway."
Support groups headed by senior distributors within the Amway organization
are adopting cult-style tactics to recruit and motivate those below them.
Help groups such as Catalyst, the Cult Information Centre and Family
Action Information and Rescue (FAIR) are increasingly receiving calls
from worried Amway distributors and their families, concerned about the
techniques being used to keep them in the organization.
From Combatting Cult Mind Control, by Steven Hassan, M.A., cult Exit
Counselor:
From Dangerous Persuaders" by Louise Samways, Penguin Books Australia, 1994:
Preface
"Dangerous Persuaders" has evolved not from an academic study of cults and
personal development courses, but from thousands of personal stories told
to me over many years by my patients and people attending my seminars and
lectures. I have mentioned the names of groups and courses only where I
have heard similar and consistent stories from many separate sources.
There are at least a hundred known cults operating in Australia and it has
been estimated that there are over one thousand operating in the United
States. Personal development courses alone are currently attracting a
turnover of one billion dollars annually in Australia. Nobody knows exactly
what the financial turnover in cults is worth, as large-scale tax avoidance
is common.
For this reason it should not be assumed that the groups, courses or
individuals mentioned in this book are necessarily the worst or the biggest.
I have only mentioned those that are well known and where my own patients
have shared their personal experiences with me.
"Multi-Level Marketing," page 52
One of the best known multi-level marketing organizations is Amway. This
hugely successful company started selling soap powder and now in some
countries even sells cars. In order to make the most money in Amway, or to
be truly "successful," it is necessary to move "upline" by recruiting more
and more distributors like yourself, who themselves recruit distributors
and so on. You make money not just from the goods you sell but by getting
a percentage of what the distributors you have recruited sell as well.
As with all sales and marketing jobs, this requires extremely hard work and
high motivation. Increasingly, Amway is adopting similar techniques to many
cults in order to attract recruits, then to keep them involved and committed
to the cause. For instance Amway distributors are instructed not to tell you
they are selling Amway up front. Usually you are asked to attend a meeting
about an "exciting new business opportunity." In fact Amway's name may not
be mentioned until after a good hour of sales pitch.
The approach of the marketing organization is usually quite evangelical. It
asks if there is something missing your life, and offers all sorts of
emotional inducements: "reach your full potential," "find the real you,"
"gain greater meaning and more meaningful relationships in your life." In
many ways Amway is more like a fundamentalist religion than a direct
marketing business, with money as the god. Joining Amway is often described,
by its distributors, as like a religious or spiritual experience.
Distributors are encouraged to recruit first among their family and friends,
an action that can very quickly put open, trusting relationships on very
shaky footing as friendship is exploited for financial gain. Amway
distributors become aware of where a potential recruit is emotionally most
vulnerable by asking questions like "What do you want out of life?" or "What
is missing from your life?" Friendships and relationships are further abused
when the target tries to say no. The Amway distributor may turn this into a
personal rejection of himself, and the recruit can be made to feel guilty
that he or she is turning down a friend.
Many people have told me about relationships they valued highly that were
never quite the same after they tried to recruit a friend or family member
to Amway. A side effect of this is that a new Amway distributor very quickly
becomes dependent on other distributors "who think the same," for friendship
as well as business relationships.
Amway encourages more and more dependence on the Amway family and its
values. For instance, a distributor told me about Amway's recommendations to
deal with problems in marriage (because of the demands Amway places on a
partner's time and priorities!). He said Amway suggested it was not a good
idea to consult a professional marriage counsellor, who would probably not
understand how Amway worked. Instead marriage and personal problems should
be dealt with in-house by going "upline" to an Amway distributor at a higher
level!
This deliberately restricts a distributor's emotional resources to Amway and
its particular value system--one which sees wives only as their husband's
assistants, and regards men as being the sole decision-makers in marriage.
Books and tapes are produced targeted directly at Amway wives and the role
they are expected to play.
To keep distributors involved and active, weekly meetings are held where
people are encouraged to talk about personal as well as business
difficulties. The "upline" distributor--the one who has recruited others and
therefore takes a percentage of their sales--functions as a priest, to whom
failures to fulfill Amway commitments and expectations can be confessed and
absolved, and further commitments made as a way of paying penance.
Extremely large gatherings are held regularly (sometimes as often as
monthly) and at these many of the techniques used by traditional cults are
employed to reinforce values and enhance commitment, for instance,
confessions, success sharing and singing. Participants are expected to
conform to a strict dress code--jacket and tie for men, smart dresses and
jackets for women--no pants!
Many people hearing about the deliberately manipulative techniques used by
multi-level marketing groups shrug their shoulders and say "So what?"
Unfortunately dropping out of Amway and similar groups may not be simple or
totally harmless. In the present economic climate people who have been
retrenched are turning desperately to Amway to find some kind of income.
Because of their situation they are often extremely vulnerable emotionally
and Amway uses this mercilessly. A typical recruitment pitch would include
the phrases "Do you have the courage to make significant changes in your
life?", Do this for your children's sake," "Our only failures are quitters,"
and "Doesn't your family deserve what Amway can give them [materially]?"
Such highly charged language, when aimed at vulnerable people in large
groups and backed up with a constant stream of audio tapes which "those who
are truly committed to success will use conscientiously and diligently," can
be extremely effective. But if you are not a whiz-bang seller, consider
personal relationships above money, and everybody you know was signed up for
Amway long ago, this it is very easy to "fail" at Amway. Coming on top of
retrenchment, the resultant self-doubt and the guilt that Amway plays on can
cause great distress and real depression. One ex-Amway wife told me: "My
marriage, which was struggling along on a minimal income due to Joe's
[husband] retrenchment, couldn't survive a dose of Amway as well."
...If you are introduced into a direct marketing scheme that does not demand
control of your lifestyle, relationships and values, then maybe it can be a
satisfying job. But beware those that offer "not just a career but a way of
life."
From Top direct-sales companies are called a 'quasi-religion', Miami Herald 11/27/86
Drawing on deep religious metaphors and explicit spiritual references,
these companies "sell hope as much as soap, motivating their grass-roots
sales forces to labor not merely for remuneration of commissions but out
of a conviction that theirs is a sanctifying, empowering activity," said
Anson Shupe of the University of Texas and David G. Bromley of Virginia
Commonwealth University.
What is sociologically important about these companies' ideologies, Shupe
and Bromley said, is not their ability to reconcile profit-making, wealth
and materialism with spirituality. Indeed, they said, American Protestants
have long ago done just that.
Instead, the significant factor, the sociologists said, "is the power of
these ideologies to motivate individual sales persons far beyond the scope
of their actual remuneration or realistic prospects thereof."
"Root metaphors"--the most important of which are family, pioneering,
service to others and world transformations--underlie the ideologies of
Amway, Herbalife, Mary Kay Cosmetics and Fuller Brush, the direct sales
companies analyzed by Shupe and Bromley. They said the metaphors have the
"motivating, commitment-building power into which social movements--
religious or commercial--try to tap."
Posted on Genie by ex-Amway distributor:
Because of this, I have probably looked deeper at various aspects of
Amway than many present or former Amway distributors. I also have
had exposure to four different lines of sponsorship (locally, there
are no other distributors under our upline diamond except for
ourselves and our downline, thus we have attended meetings hosted by
various other groups in the area.) From my experience, most of what
has been said in this topic is right on target.
My opinions on Amway could probably fill a book. In this posting I
will throw my two cents into the current discussion and address the
cult-like aspects I have encountered (even so, it is apt to be
lengthy |-)). In the past, I have noticed many similarities between
Amway distributor groups and religious cults and remember terming it
a "secular cult." The handful of books I have read on cults give
somewhat different definitions of the term, and different
explanations of what consitutes a cult. Below are some
characteristics I have encountered in Amway that IMO are cult-like.
1) Discouragement (elimination??) of creativity and
individuality-- Everyone is told exactly how to prospect, how to
dress, how to present the plan, how to follow-up, to use the
support system, etc. What really made my stomach turn, though,
was the behavior of people at all the meetings. They could have
all been clones. Regardless of the line of sponsorship,
everyone recited the verbatim the same rhetoric ("Free in
'93...Go Diamond!...get plugged in!...I am *really* excited about
this... The Business...The System...I am getting free"), sprayed
Sweet Shot in their mouths every two minutes (lets face it--
*nobody* needs that much breath freshener), talked about the
latest promotion (always a sponsoring-related promotion, BTW--
never a product-related promotion), and dressed alike. Most
people were sure they would reach their next pin level by the
end of the next month, too. People rarely exchanged business
ideas or sales tips, as might be expected at a "business
meeting." Rarely did distributors discuss their hobbies, current
events, or outside interests. Sex role stereotypes prevailed as
well. I guess some people are not bothered by such an
environment, but I need to be given some allowance for
creativity to feel like I have accomplished something. This
brought back memories of "905" ,an early 1980s song by
The Who about a futuristic society where people are conceived via
artifical insemination and fill a predefined role in society.
Here is an excerpt:
"...My name is 905
2)Discrediting any information sources outside the group-- The
standard line for this is "If you want to be successful, listen
to those that have been successful in this. Don't listen to
those who were unsuccessful, quit, or have not tried because
they only know how to quit or be unsuccessful."
3) Careful control of information within the group--The
sidelining aspect has been discussed extensively here before.
The justification given is "Only your upline has a vested
interest in your business, so sidelines won't know what works
best for you, or will have a different approach that will not
mix with ours." Of course, every line of sponsorship I have
observed uses substantially the same approach and everyone is
told to do the same thing anyway. Distributors are also told
not to discuss any negative aspects of their business with their
downline, and not to ask about the details of their upline's
business (number sponsored, etc.). Finally, distributors are
told "until you reach diamond, only talk about the basics" (the
support system, showing the plan, $200 of personal use per
month.) Collectively, all this puts a significant limitation on
the exchange of information.
4) Dependence on arguments from authority--Cult leaders
invariably claim to have some special gift, knowledge, or divine
inspiration. Whenever a cult member encounters anything that
does not make sense, he is told something like "It is not for
you to understand all at once; only the privileged comprehend
it--in time, it will be clear." In Amway, there are lots of
canned answers to the most common questions and comments--some
true, some half-true. But the default answer if none of those
apply is "This is an unconventional business. It often does not
make any sense; but it works." This statement is often
emphasized with the stories told by the higher pin levels, all of
which at some point say "We made many mistakes and did not want
to listen to our upline. Once we did everything we were told
everything fell into place and we were successful. Now look how
wonderful our life is."
5) Unconventional interpretation or definition of common terms--
I have read that many cults take conventional theological
concepts and redefine them, thus enabling them to give the
appearance of accepting conventional doctrine while in fact
holding unconventional beliefs. I have noticed in Amway that
profit in the traditional sense is rarely mentioned. Instead,
when talking about their success, or when presenting the sales
and marketing plan, they give their gross profit of $X and say
"I (or you) have made $X." Personally, the primary metric I use
to measure success is net profit. Not so in the world of Amway,
though. Success is measured by sales volume, by the size of your
group, by sponsoring rate, by the frequency of sales & marketing
plan presentations, or even by the quantity of distributors on
Standing Order Tapes and in attendance at functions.
6) Sanctity of leadership--Invariably, distributors are
repeatedly reminded what *wonderful* people their upline
emeralds and diamonds are. In my experience a common reward for
achievement is simply to be able to spend some time with them (a
group dinner or lunch, for instance). All of them are said to
be altruistic, caring people that have the greatest concern and
love for each distributor in their downline *personally*. To be
fair, I have seen evidence that this concern is to some extent
genuine (then again, with the amount of money they make from us,
why shouldn't they love us
7) Emphasis on Proselylization--Sponsorship is the focus above
all else. The retail sales aspect is ignored entirely, and even
distributor use of products is not stressed as much as one might
expect.
8) Claimed unique ability to offer some form of salvation--In
Amway, this takes the form of financial independence or simply
"getting free." This is the most important aspect to stress
when prospecting and developing new distributors. (As a
parenthetical remark, IMO being a typical Amway distributor is
the antithesis of freedom. I have never felt such entrapment in
my main occupation.) As the sales and marketing plan is
typically presented, over 50% of the presentation is not devoted
to the marketing plan at all, but rather to talking with a
prospect about what they want to do in life. A skillful
presenter lets the prospect talk about what they do to earn a
living, and some of their hobbies and interests. Ideally, the
presenter already knows much of this information. The presenter
then guides the conversation until the prospect gives specific
details on what they find lacking in their life. When the
presenter finds a few items that are specific and obtainable by
additional time or money, he asks the prospect to write them
down on a piece of paper. The purpose in writing them down is to
make them more concrete, and so your sponsor can later say
something like "You came up with the reasons to build this
business, not anybody that not only can you not live without
them, but the only way you will ever get them is to be an Amway
distributor and follow the "success pattern" exactly.
9) A few other similarities: Commonly when the marketing plan
is presented the line of sponsorship will be recited and the
presenter will comment on what a "fine line" or "fine thread" it
was that brought him this business opportunity. He will further
state how lucky he was that he was shown the plan, and how
fortunate each member of his audience is to have been invited to
see this opportunity. I have heard similar comments from
cultist missionaries. Distributors are told that when
presenting the plan they are not selling anything but rather are
simply "sharing a business opportunity" or "sharing an
opportunity for freedom." Soon after sponsorship, it is
revealed that this business is "not about the money" but rather
about "helping others." This instantly conjures up the
euphemisim that missionaries and evangelists are not trying to
sell anything or convert anybody--they are just "sharing the
good news." I also found it interesting that after our upline
found out that we were not plannng on attending the next major
function we received several notes and postcards telling us how
much our presence would be missed, how important it would be to
others to see us and our progress, and how much they loved us and
were praying we would reconsider our decision. Finally, physical
exhaustion of members is a technique cults employ, and is present
in some sense in Amway as well.
One final note. I have seen quite a lot of anger expressed toward
people's upline in this topic. I can't blame them. Still, I feel
our upline (at least the lower pin levels) are sincere believers in
what they are doing. They really do feel that overall they are
improving their lives and that of their downline group. I have
heard Amway called a cult before, but have not from anyone as well-
informed as this group here. This discussion fascinates me, too.
Posted on Usenet by an ex-Amway distributor:
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I remember the telephone call I received from a woman in Salem, Oregon.
She was calling me about my book on the Jonestown tragedy. I was new in
the [Amway] business, having been in only a week.
"Last year DeVos and Van Andel brought in William Nicholson, former President
Gerald Ford's appointments secretary, to reorganize Amway. Nicholson says
the firm is cleansing the sales force and there is a new approach,
downplaying evangelism and cultism and emphasizing real sales training
instead."
David Bromley, a Virginia Commonwealth University sociology professor,
called Amway "a religiously sectarian social movement." As in many
religious organizations, he said "membership is fairly closed, people
believe the group is a unique means to salvation, there are ideological
clashes within the mainstream, members believe the rest of the world has
fallen from grace and the organization is restoring the proper order, and
the group is led by charismatic leaders."
It does exactly the same thing on an economic level that a lot of other
groups, like cults, would do on a religious level, or maybe on a self-
actualization level. But it uses many of the same techniques. It gets
people together in a common cause; it surrounds them with social support;
it provides charismatic leadership that gives them guidelines for living...
It was two days after he had been seen on national television, helping a
young girl break away from a religious sect, that the call came through
to Graham Baldwin's office.
Commercial cults believe in the dogma of greed. They deceive and manipulate
people to work for little or no pay in the hope of getting rich. There are
many pyramid-style or multi-level marketing organizations that promise big
money but fleece their victims. They then destroy their victim's self-
esteem so that they will not complain.
[Keep this one in mind when you hear Amway distributors criticizing anyone
who decides to get out as a "loser," "quitter," etc.]
Blurb
"Louise Samways is a Melbourne psychologist who is a recognized expert in
the fields of psychological healing and health. Following the publication
of her last book, "Your Mindbody Energy," in which she gave a brief outline
of how cults manipulated people by misusing psychological techniques, she
was contacted by many victims and their families. The evident need for more
widespread information about how cults manage to recruit people, and how to
escape from their influence, led her to write this book."
Sales people have been among the first to start using psychological
techniques to manipulate people. ... Usually you know if someone is selling
a product, so you are prepared and therefore cautious. Increasingly people
are being maneuvered into joining very large group gatherings where they
are processed through powerful psychological techniques to sell them some
thing, when they thought they were just attending an "information evening."
One marketing group used group hypnosis to make people fire-walk and then
immediately afterwards, while they were still in a highly aroused state,
got them to sign expensive business contracts to learn to become teachers
of fire-walking themselves!
Amway, Herbalife and Mary Kay Cosmetics are among U.S. direct sales
companies that capitalize on the fundamentalist idiom of "gospel
prosperity" and are in fact a "quasi-religion," two sociologists concluded
here at a meeting of social scientists.
Greetings. I have been lurking here for quite some time and have read
all the postings in this topic. I have firsthand, long-term
experience with Amway, having been involved for about 3.5 years. My
wife and I are currently Amway distributors but are in the process of
deciding if we will continue in Amway, and if so what our approach
will be. My opinions of Amway and its distributor networks are mixed
but predominately negative. My wife has generally been a staunch
believer in the potential Amway holds for us and the methodologies
promoted by "the system;" I have generally been skeptical.
and I have just become alive.
I am the newest populator
of the planet they call Earth...
The knowledge of the universe
was fed into my mind...
Everything I know is what I need to know.
Everything I do has been done before.
Every sentence in my head,
someone else has said...
Now I'm to begin the life that I'm assigned
A life that's been used before--a thousand times...
I have a feeling deep inside that something is missing.
It's a feeling in my sole, and I can't help wishing
that ... I'll discover
that were living a lie.
And I'd tell the whole world the reason why
but until then all I know is what I need to know...."
I'm going to add a comment here that many people will feel is off
topic, but I don't care, because I think it's important. My wife
and I spent five years in the International Churches of Christ, an
international cult that uses extreme techniques to convert and
retain members. Wives had to submit, men had to submit to men
higher up in the church...you get the idea.
Well, a couple of days ago, a fellow played an Amway motivational
tape for me. (Of course, not even once was the name Amway
mentioned - as if they were ashamed of it.) I swear, I felt like
I was back in the church, listening to the rhetoric of getting
close to others and forcing friendships, "learning" from imitating
others, and the like.
Bottom line: If Amway works for you, fine. If the ICoC works for
you, fine. Just don't expect me to join in.